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Edgar's Chemistry Test
Results
Self-Confidence
As
someone with moderate self-confidence, you generally feel comfortable
interacting with other people. In particular, you find the company of
friends comforting and occasionally enjoy meeting new people. You tend
to be relaxed in groups, which makes people around you relaxed too.
Perhaps because you feel comfortable talking about yourself, others
tend to enjoy being around you and perceive you as friendly.
Your
social confidence also spills into your personal beliefs about
yourself. Although you have several strengths, you tend to acknowledge
and accept your weaknesses. However, you sometime regret things
you've
done or said in the past, and occasionally get embarrassed by these
things.
When it comes to your professional life,
you tend to
set moderate to high standards for yourself. Your work performance
should provide ample evidence for this. With this and your sociability,
friends and colleagues tend to see you as someone who can provide sound
advice.
Family Orientation
As someone who is
oriented to familial matters, you value the company of family-members
and domestic life. If you have children already, you enjoy spending
time with them very much and work hard to be a good parent. If you
don't have children, you very much desire having children in the
future. And your preference for cooking and entertaining guests at home
will likely ease the transition into parenthood.
You take pride
in maintaining and cultivating a healthy family and work hard to
achieve this. This natural tendency is easily illustrated by your
preference for doing things around the house as opposed to going out to
clubs and restaurants.
What really sets you apart from people
that are low in family orientation is that you know how to manage your
frustrations and work well on your own. This means that you are
well-equipped to manage a family without letting all the work that is
involved wear you down. However, as someone with strong family values,
all the work that is involved in maintaining a tidy home and
well-stocked kitchen might occasionally make it difficult for you to
finish everything that you need to do.
Self-Control
The
self-control personality dimension captures the way in which a person
regulates and directs him or herself. Being low in self-control can be
both good and bad. Occasionally people may be compelled to follow their
intuitions and give in to their temptations, and your degree of
self-control makes this likely to happen more often than not. This can
be good in circumstances where being relaxed and open are important.
However, in situations where it is necessary to be focused and careful,
you might find that you do or say things that may be inappropriate.
As
someone who exerts little control over your actions, you may find that
you commit social blunders that might offend other people and get
yourself in trouble. For example, if you're given responsibility to
work on a project that requires close attention to detail, you may be
likely to overlook important details because you have difficulty
staying focused. Consequently, you might feel more comfortable
delegating such tasks to other people who are more detail oriented.
Being able to recognize such characteristics in yourself and having
more detail-oriented people do such tasks could be an effective way to
manage your own stress level.
Low self-control may diminish
your effectiveness at work. Acting too relaxed can make it difficult
for you to focus on projects that require organized sequences of steps
or stages. Thus, your ability to accomplish may be inconsistent.
Indeed, it's possible that you might be criticized periodically for
being unreliable or unable to "stay within the lines." Nonetheless,
you
may still experience many short-lived pleasures and never be thought of
as boring.
Openness
As someone moderate in
openness,
you have an appreciation for art and nature, but are also down to earth
and realistic. On the one hand, it's likely that you are fond of
music
and art, and on the other hand, enjoy and appreciate things that have a
clear point and some sort of practical utility. Additionally, you have
a certain degree of awareness of your own emotions that is, you tend to
notice when you're feeling a particular way and take those feelings
into account when making decisions. You tend to think in both abstract
ways—in terms of metaphors—and logically. Therefore, in your work
and
free time, you enjoy activities that get your "creative juices" flowing
but are also able to keep your mind on the primary objective of the
task at hand.
Your tendency to be both open-minded, yet
realistic is generally quite advantageous. For instance, when there are
no clear rules about how to approach a particular problem, your
openness makes it easy for you to identify new ways to solve problems
that might not be very obvious to people that are not as open as you
are. However, because you are also realistic-minded, you are able
follow-rules quite easily. This combination makes it easy for you to
excel in your work because you are able to "think outside the box"
while still being able to keep your eyes on "the big picture."
Easygoingness
Easygoingness
refers to one's ability to relax. Based on your score, you appear to
"take things as they come" and enjoy having a good time. However,
being
high in easygoingness also has the potential to produce stress in a
number of ways. For example, you may find it difficult to complete
tasks thoroughly and efficiently. In this way, being high in
easygoingness cannot only make your life difficult, but also the lives
of the people around you. Another potential problem with being too high
in easygoingness is that it can provide you with gratification in the
short-term, but in the long-term provide undesirable consequences.
High
easygoingness, even when not seriously destructive, may also diminish
your effectiveness at work, for example. You may find it aversive and
difficult to put in all the effort that may sometimes be needed to
effectively accomplish certain tasks. For this reason, your colleagues
might view you as forgetful and unfocused.
How does your personality affect your
love life?
Your
social competence and charm make it easy for you to get along well with
most people. Indeed, it's self-confidence that allows people to feel
comfortable interacting with others without feeling insecure and
vulnerable. This should work to your advantage in your romantic life.
Your social skills should help make for a pleasant first date by
alleviating any nervousness that your partner might have. Over time,
the realistic standards that you tend to set for yourself could work
well with your partner. That is, by setting realistic goals for
yourself and your relationships, your partners should feel less
pressure to be someone that they are not.
Given how much you
value family life, you probably get along best with people who share
your values and beliefs. In fact, it's likely that you maintain close
connections with members of your immediate and distant family. For this
reason, you would probably be most satisfied in a romantic relationship
with someone who also values domestic life.
Being in a
relationship with someone who enjoys going out to parties and
staying-up late at night might be fun, at least initially; yet it's
likely that you will find this tiring over time. Thus, it might be
easier and more satisfying for you to develop a long-lasting
relationship with a person who also enjoys spending time at home and
desires starting a family. On first dates, perhaps you might suggest to
your partner that the two of you spend a quiet night having dinner at
one of your respective homes instead of going out to a restaurant or
club.
As someone who is more relaxed than most
people, you
likely get along with most people quite well. Chances are that your
friends and colleagues perceive you as lively, fun to be with, and
good-humored. When it comes to romance, you'll likely be attracted to
most people. However, your free-spirited nature might make being in a
relationship with a person that is more rigid than you difficult
because you might perceive the person as being too uptight and
controlling.
Your openness probably makes it easy for
you to
respect and appreciate people that are different from you. However, you
may become frustrated with people that are too unconventional or
traditional. Therefore, you may be happiest in serious relationships
with people that share both your open-mindedness and realistic nature.
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